Before I start, let me say one, that I do this out of genuine concern for everyone who is not Asian, and two, that the most horribly racist things I’ve ever heard have come from Chinese people in my family (ahem… the women).
In second place comes from the sexually desperate men (come to think of it, they would be called “incels”) who would exclusively chase after Asian women, thinking that they were easy as long as you weren’t an Asian male (probably true, since most non-Asian guys go to Asia and seek out Asian women as a way to feel “big” over Asian men – despite raising Asian sons).
Which, conveniently, I, a half-Asian, was to them, since in this world it’s not enough to just win – you gotta make everyone around you lose. I’ve seen non-Asian guys attack me for “looking Asian,” while chasing after Asian girls – the only girls they thought they had a shot with.
They had to make themselves look big. It’s really just simple math.
My own mother hypocritically pressured me to marry only Asian, and used to attack me for dating black women (ironically the only women who are nice to Asian guys).
Similarly, for decades, white and non-Asian men with Asian “girlfriends” seemed to have something called “racist tourette’s” where they could never stop talking about white women, Asian men, minorities, feminism, etc.
The reason this is happening?
Low self esteem.
White male / Asian female couples, for whatever reason, have a perpetual vendetta against the world, and are not progressive, and we, their children, have to pay the price for their insecurity, since more often than not, we are left to navigate a world that hates our Asian halves, while our parents seem to as well.
They rely entirely on white male fetishization as a way to achieve social success and social climbing within white society. Celeste Ng is a perfect examples of the extremely ruthless – dare I say, evil – soulless nature of certain Asians who will destroy everything around them in an attempt to feel “included,” and to make money. I will touch on that later.
Since Asian culture is cutthroat, extremely racist, extremely nihilistic and focused entirely on assimilation, status climbing and success (let’s be real, the most famous Tiger Mom was a Chinese woman routinely labeled as a hardcore racist that literally shocked white people for being even better than they were at being low-key racist – and she’s not the only one, joining Michelle Malkin, among others), marriage to a white man is tantamount – especially in America.
It doesn’t matter that they don’t love them, because they don’t. Asian culture prioritizes survival, and love is just a joke to them.
That’s how they think. They’re hardcore racist nihilists and any half-Asian can attest that our mothers straight up admit to us that they hate our fathers, but married them for “assimilation.” Being Asian is a curse, you see, and a dead-end, dead bedroom marriage to the most ignorant, racist, repugnant white men on the planet somehow means “success.”
Keep in mind most WMAF couples involve two people who look so incredibly emotionally distant, angry, and one or both of them looks as if they hate the other. I would, too, if my life goal was to marry a bald, sweaty, racist, incel white man, and I would hate Asian men if I was a non-Asian man who had to go to the ends of the earth to marry a self-hating, bitter, screaming, toxic Asian woman.
All half-Asians are amazed at how similar our situations are – with our parents in a loveless, dead, sexless marriage, our racist fathers beaten down (and oftentimes turning to racism as a cope), and our hard-core nihilistic, racist Tiger mothers in total control.
Compare this to the average Asian man / Asian woman couple, or Asian man / non-Asian woman couple. It is so, so loving, and caring, and sweet, and usually, if not always – the woman looks so happy. So do the children.
Obviously, white men and Asian women, harassing AMWF and AMXF couples is par and parcel – for one reason. If they maintain Asian (and half-Asian) men at the bottom, and attack non-Asian women (who they truly believe more beautiful than themselves) who like Asian men – then they can continue to artificially climb and maintain their status as “replacement” white woman at whoever-is-in-charges’ side.
WMAF is – and I mean this truly, from the bottom of my heart – a replacement, white supremacist coupling that will stop at absolutely nothing to bring down the world around them in order to ensure “success.” They won’t even stop at harming their own children – going out of their way to attack half-Asians who look “too Asian.”
Attack Asian men and white women, and ugly, racist white patriarch + Asian Tiger Wives looks good. It looks normal. And so nobody will bat an eye as Asian women take the place of white women at the white supremacist’s side.
Celeste Ng wrote a book about her own experiences, and those of all of her racist, depressed Asian girlfriends with their battered white husbands and mentally ill, depressed Asian looking sons – and spun it to be about a Chinese father and a white Tiger Mom. Right, okay, not biased at all.
Hate begets hate. It’s not enough to win, when it comes to these white nationalists with Asian brides, and Asian brides with white nationalist husbands. Others have to lose. It’s a perpetual vendetta against the world. Not a relationship, and the end goal isn’t an egalitarian world. It’s a world where Asian women, and only Asian women, are included into the white man’s superior, secure society, and white women kicked out for their “feminism.”
And just FYI, the above girls’ experience isn’t anything unique.
I can literally dump dozens if not hundred of videos of white / black / Latina / Arab women with Asian husbands who are ruthlessly harassed by the Asian mother in law (and sometimes the white, Nazi boyfriend). I can also dump half-Asian women married to Asian men, whose non-Asian fathers absolutely hate that their half-Asian daughter is marrying an inferior Asian male.
Why? Jealous. Hypocrites. Fake, pragmatist, non-loving, hypocritical, racist “marriage.” Right around the time when things might just be a little less racist than they were for thousands of years – along come Asian Tiger Moms and their non-Asian husbands; the new “valkyries” of white supremacy will be Asian women.
If you don’t believe me, literally just sort through AMWF videos on Youtube and see how nearly all of them (yes, all of them) talk about the Asian mother (and sometimes her white Nazi boyfriend) harassing Asian men / white women.
Here’s one to start (she probably deleted it after being linked here).
As you can imagine, half-Asian heritage will always reflect our mothers’ racism and self -hatred.
There are millions of white supremacist, self hating, half-Asians out there, and they will be – I repeat – will be a major sociological problem in the coming years. Very, very few of us are willing to expose our parents’ racism, other than me and a handful of others, and the reason I do so is merely to warn you. Literally every half-Asian on the planet knows exactly what I’m talking about, and knows exactly what it is like to look Asian when pretty much everyone is racist against you – including, you guessed it, XMAF couples themselves. Ironically, WMAF couples are the last people on earth to be raising Asian sons.
If you really think I’ve risked literally everything to bring this secret to the surface, and won’t stop despite being doxxed, simply because I find this fun – you’re wrong. I risk everything because this needs to be exposed.
Reblogged this on Living in Anglo-America.
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i’m a hapa girl and seeing asian men with white girls is literally my favorite thing in the world lol
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Yeah too bad in reality it’s a lot more complicated than your cute little “favorite thing.”
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oh ya i know it’s brutal, there are countless elliot rodgers and holtzclows out there. you don’t need to tell me. but that just makes it all the more better when it’s on the other side. you said , amwf kids turn out better right? so ya, it’s something i root for
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Yup, I’m just saying for every happy AMWF couple there’s probably a WM in WMAF who wants to kill them, an AF who is seething at the teeth because it exists, and a Hapa out there who wants to kill them even more, or kill white women in general, since we all know WMAF Hapas are deranged.
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ultimately we follow the herd, and if more high status white women went for asian looking males, asian and eurasian females would soon follow.
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How wonderful that people are admitting that actual love doesn’t exist. Bravo. They must all live very happy and fulfilled lives.
Besides, dating issues are the least of the problems facing Half Asians when it comes to literal white supremacist incels marrying psychotic Asian Tiger Moms.
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One more thing is that very beautiful women DO like Asian males. But the problem oftentimes is that the harassment from non-Asian guys and Asian GIRLS is intense and bordering on violent.
I say bordering because it’s pretty much only a matter of time before WMAF or another Hapa from WMAF starts killing AMWF.
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oh i know, i just wish they were more ubiquitous. like the reason you never hear about hispanics complaining about gender disparity with regards to interracial dating is because both hispanic men and women date interracially at about the same rate. if that were the case for asians, there would be less of a problem. so i try to encourage amwf whenever possible. both of my ex-boyfriends are with white girls now lol, and I think its awesome.
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Actually, the real scary part is that the historical complaining about the disparity wasn’t done by Asian men. It was done by half-Asian men. Most of those old websites that first brought light to it were run by half-Asian men, who are on the forefront of the psychological war against being Asian – by our own parents.
All of the Asian men I know are perfectly well adjusted people – but none of the half-Asians are. The reasons for this is because Asian men are attractive to many women, but the people who are trying to cover this up are ugly white incel men, and Asian women themselves (for various reasons).
WMAF isn’t problematic because of the disparity – it’s more problematic because the worst, most despicable white men seek out Asian women, and the manner in which they raise biracial Asian men is extremely dangerous. We have, as I point out on this website, hundreds if not millions of right-leaning Asian-hating Nazis who seek out Asian women, and produce biracial children.
There is no way in the world this will not be a problem in the future. I know I’m not the only person to have noticed this, because /r/hapas got 100,000,000 views. Not ~400,000 like this website, but 100 million.
The progressive population needs to first and foremost look at the trends in race and sexuality and deeply self-reflect on this before worse happens. This is probably the most important factor facing the future of progressiveness in the world.
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Oh, also, I’ve noticed a trend among the children of white men and black women, where the children are extremely racist against blacks. Christopher Harper Mercer.
One of the downsides of being me is that I see patterns that nobody else seems to pay attention to, but if people actually cared, they’d be saving themselves a lot of pain down the line, because the Hapacalypse is a real thing. I deal with cleaning up my parents’ mess pretty much daily.
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“For every happy AMWF couple there’s probably a WM in WMAF who wants to kill them”
That sounds a tad exaggerated but yeah, there’s WM in WMAF who get triggered by it
“An AF who is seething at the teeth because it exists”
The vast majority of AF (yes including the ones in WMAF) don’t give a damn. And don’t act like there aren’t just as much if not more, AM who seeth at the teeth because of the existence of WMAF. (not all Asian men obviously) There’s this thing embedded into (not all) men’s psyche where they don’t like their women “sleeping with the enemy” or in this case, different race. AM are more likely to get triggered by WMAF than AF are towards AMWF. Just like how WM are more likely to get triggered by AMWF than WW are towards WMAF.
“[ There’s a] Hapa out there who wants to kill them even more, or kill white women in general.”
Just because Elliot Rodgers was a WMAF hapa doesn’t mean other WMAF hapas are like that. It’s one thing to create a stereotype based on certain vocal people of that group, it’s another thing to create one based on one person of that group.
“We all know WMAF Hapas are deranged.”
I call B.S. on that one. That’s like saying “We all know black people are ghetto” The vast majority of hapas outside the r/hapas cult aren’t like that. Most of them are normal, happy people. The WMAF hapa dynamic you described does exist but only as a loud minority and it’s sad that you’re parents fit that dynamic. Even though my WMAF hapa experience was different, I understand where your pain and bitterness is coming from.
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“/r/hapas cult”. Do you mean the subreddit that received well over 300 million views by now and instantly went viral the moment it was brought up – because it had incredible merit in the real world? Compared to whatever you’ve accomplished and / or won’t accomplish in your life?
The majority of hapas I know, and Asian people I know, in real life, are receptive to the discussion and complaints of hapas from WMAF. In fact the majority of non-self-loathing Asian women I know are also receptive and sympathetic. WMAF couples even stare at me in public, wondering what my life is like.
The fact that you’re not probably implies your own issues rather than ours. Contrary to what people think, I have mentioned all of this to my friends and family and they’re all receptive – so I guess you can continue roleplaying as a big strong hapa girl (it’s not unusual for white men to roleplay as Asian or Hapa girls to speak over Asian experiences), but in reality these issues are real and I see them every day and with all the hapas I know. So either you don’t know many hapas (true of many hapas who grow up in white majority areas), or are lying, and I think it’s a combination of both. I know much more than most people do, having grown up in New York, and all of them were receptive.
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Get off my case. I’m only 15. You’re gaslighting me and assuming I’m some grown white dude trolling you for having the audacity to say things that you disagree with. Bruh.
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It’s one thing to assume I’m ignorant. It’s another to call me a troll for disagreeing with you. Plus my whole comment was more about your statement about WMAF view towards AMWF. I’m not gonna argue with you about hapas anymore.
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Yeah, you must really have a profound understanding of the world at your age. Look outside. The riots destroying cities were started by a white cop with an Asian wife. Not a coincidence. It’s a harsh world out there.
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It’s usually the WM that has a problem with AMWF not the AF. The closest thing to bashing AMWF I’ve ever heard an AF do is admit that seeing AMWF makes her feel insecure and even then, I rarely hear about AF saying anything about AMWF.
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AF usually don’t care about AMWF probably since they don’t struggle with dating as much as AM. Why do the WM care? Like I said, “There’s this thing embedded into (not all) men’s psyche where they don’t like their women “sleeping with the enemy” or in this case, different race.”
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AF usually don’t care about AMWF probably since they don’t struggle with dating as much as AM. But why do the WM care? As I mentioned earlier “There’s this thing embedded into (not all) men’s psyche where they don’t like their women “sleeping with the enemy” or in this case, different race.”
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I’ve been attacked for dating white women as have my Asian cousins and friends, by my so called friends who were fine with Asian women. Plenty of Neo Nazis have an Asian fetish. Get real.
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“Plenty of Neo Nazis have an Asian fetish. Get real.” I never said they didn’t. I just said ASIAN WOMEN don’t care about AMWF.
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Plenty of Asian women want to be absorbed into the white hegemony so that they can assimilate. This goes back to World War 2 when WMAF was legal, and AMWF illegal. You’re dead wrong in this regard. If AMWF is anti white supremacist, as it always has been, white supremacists will have a problem with it. I’ve already proven many WMAF are white supremacists. I’ve seen hatred of AMWF from WMAF in reality, a lot. Maybe we have differences in what we consider aggression.
We’re on the eve of the potential collapse of the US, all because of the actions of a white cop with an Asian wife, and we’re talking about dating. Jesus Christ read the writing on the wall. Racism is so common and so integral to human interactions that I’m literally surprised it took 50 years for people to realize being mixed race is much more complicated than just “be beautiful.” That’s some grade A delusionalism if I’ve ever seen it. To be fair I went about 22 years thinking it was all rainbows and sunshine.
I legitimately can’t believe I have to explain this to another hapa, racism isn’t real just because our Asian moms say so and exclusively marry white men for the privilege?
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“Being mixed race is much more complicated than just “be beautiful.” Of course it’s more complicated than that. It’s about learning to embrace both sides of your ethnicity and for your parents to teach you that as well. Plus other stuff. My parents told me that Asians consider hapa girls attractive and my dad told me that I could easily get a Asian BF easily because of that. I knew more Asians than half asians growing up. Most of these Asians I knew were my mother’s friends or friend’s relatives. Almost all my moms AF friends are married to or have been Asian men. Ironically I knew more Asian couples than WMAF growing up. I never knew how common WMAF is (though it’s not as common as BMWF)
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I can’t deny that AMWF is different from WMAF and it’s less common for it to be white supremacist and toxic. If the mixed person isn’t raised well then they’re can very much be problems. I think mixed kids are more susceptible to internalized racism due to a crisis, insecurity or confusion in racial identity. Luckily I never suffered with “not feeling white enough” since my parents raised me to be proud of my race. (If anything, I’ve had moments where I didn’t feel Asian enough.) I feel sorry for hapas/Asians who wanna be white though. There’s lots of WMAF that are similar to what you described and there’s lots of WMAF that are normal and non-racist. Period. Obviously I know telling you not all WMAF doesn’t help you though.
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Hapas are entitled to their voices no matter what. Especially now that shit is getting very real. Although it was real a while back, I always said that one day hapas are going to have to own up to reality, that we’re not white, we’re seen as alien to everyone else (including blacks and whites), and that our family dynamic solves nothing.
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Just curious, when did you get banned from Reddit?
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Probably a year ago, why?
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Was it 2018 or 2019? Cuz I discovered r/hapas a year ago
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Don’t remember
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