WMAF: Unattractive, desperate, strange-looking, racist, white supremacist, know it all, older, creepy, bottom of the barrel, fetishistic, undesirable, privileged, entitled, opportunististic, balding anti-feminist who targets Asian women for nefarious reasons as a last resort against “feminism” and “aggressive,” “slutty,” white women and “coalburners” (women who sleep with men of color), and marries a cruel, unloving, abusive, asexual (who he mistakes as “traditional”), mentally ill, hostile, angry, hateful, controlling, negative, depressed, nagging, scowling, bitter, poisonous, self hating, extremely superficial, openly and proudly racist Tiger Mom who wants her kids to look white and shames us for our Asian features, denies and doesn’t understand racism and tells us that we are white and have “hybrid vigor”, and marries for social status, assimilation, privilege, money, and bragging rights that her child isn’t Asian (even though the child inevitably is Asian), while talking badly about Asian and half-Asian men (who she mistakes as Asian) and white women alongside her loser, rejected, old, balding husband that she has no sexual attraction / affection to and married out of spite and convenience, in front of her Asian passing son and the Asian passing sons of millions of other WMAF couples. Marries because of racism, convenience, to escape her heritage, social status, and never love or physical attraction – hence targeting specifically unattractive white males (the kind that she will not have to have sex with).
Growing up, despite never seeing AMWF, when I got to college I had already met about 12-13 half-Asians, and 10 or 11 of these had Asian fathers. I’ve noticed that in every country on earth, half Asians with Asian fathers are in positions of prominence – especially in western countries, that are hyper competitive and racist. Just look through the data yourself. Nearly 100 years of Hapas being around and hapas with white dads think that being in an already forgotten about 2019 movie is “success,” whereas at one point, 100 years ago, an AMWF Eurasian male held the most Australian land of anyone in history. It’s because it’s literally polarly opposed natural selection. “Best of both worlds” generally only applies to AMWF; not to the socially rejected white men and their self-hating, hyper racist Tiger brides who won’t touch them. But more to the point, it’s a bad idea to not only ignore, but contribute to racism against your own kids, just because you want to assimilate for whatever loveless, cutthroat reason you have, and just because, as man, you have to “feel big.” Oh, do you want more examples? In the rare event that AMWF does happen, the guy has to be literally in the top 5% of… whatever. That’s why you see WMAF claiming the children of AMWF as proof of “Hapa” beauty.
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Youtube is filled with very attractive, tall Asians guys with attractive white / non Asian girls, and if you ever look at the white male / Asian female couples around you – they are filled with hatred and anger towards both Asian men and white women. Compare to not only how these couples look, but the way they think and act. It’s like comparing orange 1999 Toyota corolas to potato salad. Nothing in common.

Says nothing about love, refers to herself as a witch, marries a well below average white male.

Here are some “superior Half Asian genetics” that I just randomly came across:

Mod Ash of Runescape “fame”. Such hybrid vigor, from a white father and a Chinese mother.
You honest cannot tell me that this couple is going to produce healthy kids.

LMAO. Merriam Webster could not have defined these better.
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Same could be said for pretty much every interracial relationship except WMAF.
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EW, check out https://www.reddit.com/r/AltRightExposed/comments/92wkws/dichotomy_of_white_america_white_america_the_2/
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You’ve gotten lists of criminal or dysfunctional amwf. A lot of “what about” isms
But it’s not the absence of dysfunction, but fewer sources of dysfunction that is the difference between wmaf and amwf.
Maybe the Asian dad is some gambler who snorts cocaine and the white mom is a neurotic domineering woman. The kid has a criminal record, yes yes. But is the cause race related?
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I admit that both Asian men and Asian women partake in rampant self hatred which either the white parent of either gender either doesn’t know how to deal with, or is flattered by.
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Lots of hapas with Asian dads do tend to be successful but there’s also lots of successful hapas with Asian moms. Chrissy Teigen, Henry Golding, Markiplier, LaurDIY, Alex Wasabi, list goes on!
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You have literally nothing to contribute to the conversation
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You have literally nothing to contribute to the conversation. In fact I find it weird, given that the original critics of the WMAF dynamic were all women (literally the first people who circulated my blog were all hapa women, while the hapa men, being “tough guys” would deny the issues), so if I had to venture a guess based on your poor grasp of the English language and real world issues – you’re probably around 15 or 16. That or a white male who hasn’t jerked off yet. I get it, you’re young and you have to stay positive. Those mean girls / boys at school don’t want to be friends with someone who is all negative and sour.
Have a little sympathy. Or are you just a horrible, spiteful cretin just like everyone else?
Did you forget people like Markiplier’s brother who is a lifelong cartoonist whose cartoon reflects his pain at being literally “between two worlds” (that’s the name of his comic, or something similar). Did you notice that Henry Goulding is being already pigeonholed into roles as a gay Asian man, a long standing trend in Hollywood? Did you notice that Alex Wasabi is clearly gay and is using that other hapa woman as his beard?
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Actually coming back to this and looking at your history on this site, I don’t even know why I bother arguing. White guys posing as Asian girls / Hapa girls to dictate how we should feel, out of your sexual desperation for Asian women, is pretty much bread and butter when it comes to this thing. Toss off.
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So you just assume I’m a white troll for confronting and disagreeing with you?
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“Have a little sympathy”. Of course I do. I wasn’t raised like you but I’m not denying your own experiences. I’ve read the voices of other non-toxic hapas on Reddit. They had sympathy for people like you but felt like those people channeled their resentment in toxic ways.
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“Actually coming back to this and looking at your history on this site, I don’t even know why I bother arguing. White guys posing as Asian girls / Hapa girls to dictate how we should feel, out of your sexual desperation for Asian women, is pretty much bread and butter when it comes to this thing. Toss off.” I’m not telling you how to feel. You wanna assume anyone disagreeing with you is some white dude trolling you, your loss. Have a nice day.
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You do realize that there was a point in time where Kpop didn’t exist and Asians and half Asians were the constant butt of jokes, right? Actually to this date I still don’t even think much has changed in this regard, such that they couldn’t even stomach having a full Asian guy play a role in “Crazy Rich Asians” due to full Asians being laughably unsellable. Pick up a history book, and I guarantee you your rose colored glasses will fall off. Even other Hapas I know can’t go more than five minutes without mocking me for looking Asian, so I’m not exactly sure how you manage to avoid this… but then again, it appears that western society has a use for Asians just so long as they have boobs and a vagina. Virtually everything you’ve said is false out in the real world, and unfortunately it took me until about age 22 to realize that my discomfort at life itself came from the racism I experienced. Gendered racism in particular. So grow up and realize the world isn’t a Youtube video.
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Oh and one last thing before I leave this post and never come back:
“Did you notice that Alex Wasabi is clearly gay and is using that other hapa woman as his beard?”
I see you posted something about that once on r/hapas. You also said “This is a joke. Half Asian girls never date Half Asian guys.” U mad bro? The real joke is you think hapa girls could never be attracted to Asian/Hapa guys. Thai-American singer Tata Young (whose a WMAF hapa) is married to an Asian guy. While it is true that seeing a hapa girl with an Asian BF/husband is rare, it’s not impossible. I’ve even heard of two couples with a Blasian woman (yes both of these women were the daughter of a BMAF couple) and Asian man. K-pop rapper Yoon Mi Rae is half Korean, half black and married to a Korean rapper. If you look up the YT channel “Love Withstanding”, you’ll find it’s about a Korean guy engaged/married to a Blasian girl.
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“So grow up and realize the world isn’t a Youtube video.” No sh*t, Sherlock. Grow up and realize the world isn’t Reddit. I’m not all “la la la life is sunshine and rainbows”. But neither am I all “Being a hapa with a white dad and Asian mom is the most hellish thing in the world”.
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Yeah see this has been an issue since the beginning when we started talking about this. There’s always a subset who try to repudiate our experiences. I always found it strange that the people most against our complaints were other hapas. You’re not doing anything new, in fact just the same old crap that hapas have been doing for 50 years, which is absolutely nothing even though it was well known for a long, long time that there was a negative element involved there. LITERALLY our first were essentially ALL the children of war brides. After 60 years, you get a couple of Youtubers and B-movie “stars” as proof that we’ve “made it.”
No other mixed race demographic has its own people trying to work against actual complaints and gripes and real world issues, proving once again, just how much our mothers and family successfully forced us into their white American integratration plan with zero room for self reflection or actual addressing of real pertinent issues that for many of us are life or death. At least back in the day Hapa women might have been somewhat sympathetic, but nowadays they’ve managed to pull off making marriage to white nationalists look like a harmless exercise of choice. Yeah, okay. Trust me, I get it, not once did my Chinese family ever reach out to me even at my worst. They encouraged me to roleplay as a white man and just run with it.
I imagine that’s what the rest of you all are doing. But then I get crucified by literal other hapas for doing the opposite. Congratulations, what a legacy.
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You come to a website filled with resources proving the trend of racist white men and Asian women and your immediate concern is dating? Even if what you mentioned was even vaguely true (Asian mothers are notorious for trying to control their childrens’ dating preferences and I’ve noticed Hapa women are the most adamantly white supremacist women there are – as are the men), dating is the least of our worries when we’re trying to survive being bullied into the ground by our own friends and family and made to feel like perpetual foreigners by our own parents. Get real.
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“I’m not exactly sure how you manage to avoid this… but then again, it appears that western society has a use for Asians just so long as they have boobs and a vagina.” Asian women are fetishized, Asian men are viewed as insignificant ethnic background characters according to the Western media’s stereotypes and I feel very bad for the Asian guys being emasculated or viewed as insignificant. Then here’s the Hapa beauty myth similar to that. Hapa chicks are hot exotic Asian (ish) girls and hapa boys? Not so much. But not all hapa girls are these “beautiful Eurasian goddesses”. I’m an excellent example of someone who breaks the stereotype of the “Gorgeous Eurasian girl”. I’m tall and overweight unlike the “typical asian girl.” In fact, I actually think Full Asian girls are prettier than me. My dad even used to suggest that I date or one day marry an Asian guy one since he thinks they’d be nice and compatible. (He doesn’t care what race I date though) I wasn’t against the idea of it. In fact, I actually kinda like the idea of dating an Asian guy but I never felt an Asian guy would wanna date me since I thought they would think I’m too fat or not attractive enough.
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Yeah, the hapa beauty myth went out the window when Elliot Rodger used it as a justification for his murders.
Who pushed that myth other than a subset of people realizing a trend and looking for a safety net? And just like everything else, reality strikes. Ask the biracial hookers left over in the Phillipines about that myth, I’m sure it really helps them. Get real.
Among hapas, none of us ever bought into that myth. But who tried to push it other than integration hungry, white supremacist Asian parents of biracial kids. Again an ugly truth. Even my mother knew about this back in the 80’s and at least her excuse was escaping her abusive brother and father. Jesus this is like explaining basic stuff that everyone knows other than a handful of hapas in denial.
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“Jesus this is like explaining basic stuff that everyone knows other than a handful of hapas in denial.” I’m not in denial about the Hapa Beauty myth. Did you read my post.
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Whatever. I’ve seen it in the Chinese in my family. In denial about racism because they are abusive self hating shits with 50 year old grudges against their siblings and parents. That’s how the cycles of abuse continue.
The road to hell is paved with good intentions. Know what that means? It means I tried to bring attention to this and all I got in return was hate from hapas who should have been at very least empathetic. But then again, everyone is insecure and needs their biases and double standards to help them get through the day.
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“Jesus this is like explaining basic stuff that everyone knows other than a handful of hapas in denial.” My previous comment was literally me admitting the Beauty Myth. Did you read it?
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So as a WMAF hapa, I am supposed to be self-hating? Got it! 👍
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Stop using different usernames. I can see your IP. 👎🏽
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“Stop using different usernames. I can see your IP.” I’m sorry. Did I accidentally give off the impression that I care?
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Yes.
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Ok whatever. Well as a minor, I want to keep my anonymity.
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So answer my question, am I supposed to be self-hating since I am a WMAF hapa?
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Also it would be extremely inaccurate to say that all successful hapas are from AMWF. About 3/4 hapas are from WMAF and there’s lots of successful hapas so successful WMAF hapas exist. Yes, even the Asian passing ones. You call them “happy hapas”, people call them normal human beings who know how to function and prosper. This isn’t to say hapas don’t have problems. Not at all. But it’s usually far less extreme than yours.
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What kind of answer are you looking for here? I never said you should be anything. I asked Hapas in general to reflect on their circumstances and try to make the world a better place rather than being weaponized by our mothers to dump on everyone else as some kind of “master race,” only so far as our fathers are white.
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You sound rather proud that 3/4 of all hapas come from white fathers, as if that doesn’t have massive implications as it stands. I’ve got half a mind to think you’re a white creep with an Asian fetish, since you sure talk like one.
I’m not asking hapas to not be successful, I’m asking them to stop being opportunistic shitbags who fail to recognize the realities about racism and our history and instead use our biracial heritage as a way to make the world a better place. Get off your high horse.
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I’m giving you the benefit of the doubt, but no 15 year old girl refers to herself as a “minor.” My money is on you being a fully grown weirdo with an Asian fetish trying to speak over Hapa voices like you’ve been doing for 50 years. You know what throws me off the most? The fact that all of the original unhappy hapas were all young women extremely upset at their mothers and fathers trying to weaponize, fetishize and push them as revenge against white women / Asian men, whoever.
Another dead giveaway is that especially during Corona, seems like a lot of Asian women are bearing the brunt of racism and the fact that you seem completely mum about this means you either have no experience with it, or are a complete shut-in.
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”You sound rather proud that 3/4 of all hapas come from white fathers, as if that doesn’t have massive implications as it stands. I’ve got half a mind to think you’re a white creep with an Asian fetish, since you sure talk like one.”
I’m not. I’m just saying that it’s so common that you can’t just say being a successful hapa is exclusive to AMWF hapas.
“I’m giving you the benefit of the doubt, but no 15 year old girl refers to herself as a “minor. ”
I lack experience in posting. But you’re right. Maybe referring myself as a minor was being a little TMI.
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” The fact that all of the original unhappy hapas were all young women extremely upset at their mothers and fathers trying to weaponize, fetishize and push them as revenge against white women / Asian men, whoever.”
Really? Do you have any proof to back that up?
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“I asked Hapas in general to reflect on their circumstances and try to make the world a better place rather than being weaponized by our mothers to dump on everyone else as some kind of “master race,” only so far as our fathers are white.”
I am not implying that hapas don’t face racism. Not true at all.
And to what you said about me . ” [I think] You’re a white creep with an Asian fetish, since you sure talk like one.” Because I’m opposing you? I’m not even trying to start a fight. So tell me, how do you think a teenage girl supposed to talk like, Mr. Smarty Pants? Am I supposed to write like I’m an idiot?
And read the freaking username.
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“You’re a white creep with an Asian fetish, since you sure talk like one.” How do I even sound like one? Is it because I occasionally use blasphemy words? Or is it because anyone who opposes or argues with you is automatically a white troll? Oh and how do you even know how a teen girl supposed to talk, Mr. Smarty Pants?
Also read the freaking username.
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“You’re a white creep with an Asian fetish, since you sure talk like one.” How do I even sound like one? Is it because I occasionally use blasphemy words? Or is it because anyone who opposes or argues with you is automatically a white troll? Oh and how do you even know how a teen girl supposed to talk, Mr. Smarty Pants?
Also read the freaking username.
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Careful now, your white MRA MGTOW real identity is showing through.
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“Careful now, your white MRA MGTOW real identity is showing through.”
Here’s a fun fact: Disagreeing with someone on the internet does NOT automatically make you a troll.
A normal person can tell if it’s a teenager posting. Sometimes at least. At least in this case it’s obvious . It’s seems you obviously can’t though. I don’t know where you got that I’m a white troll. Oh wait! Yes I do! From your little “anyone who disagrees with me is a troll ” mindset even if they aren’t actually being a troll. Besides, if I was really a white male troll pretending to be a teenager, I would say way dumber stuff and speak more aggressively but I am talking in a calm, reasonable, non-trollish way as I’m not interested in starting a flame war. You literally attack me for making statements you disagree on.
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“Careful now, your white MRA MGTOW real identity is showing through.”
Here’s a fun fact: “Disagreeing with someone in the internet does NOT automatically make you a troll.”
Sometimes you can tell it’s a teenager posting. Obviously you can’t. Apparently me disagreeing with you automatically means I’m a white male troll according to your logic. It seems you just instantly assume I’m a white troll just because I’m disagreeing with you. If I was really a white troll pretending to be a teenager, I would have a more belligerent, obnoxious attitude and I’d be saying way dumber stuff. But I am approaching you in a sensible manner whereas you are pretty much attacking and gaslighting me simply because I am saying things you don’t agree with. So bye bye.
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“CaReFuL NoW, yOuR WhItE MrA MgToW ReAl iDeNtItY Is sHoWiNg tHrOuGh.”
Nope, not a white troll 🙃
再見, 混蛋
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These dudes have been playing the same game for ten years. Roughly the amount of time I’ve been writing about this. Ten years later they’re still gonna be role playing as if they’re not the problem and it’s white women, Jews, Asian men that are the problem.
Not gonna read it cause it’s the same trash as usual. People don’t want to listen to an argument, or the truth, as long as the truth is impractical to their ego or self interest. Not really my responsibility to convince them.
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What is this all about?
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What?
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My point is, I’m NOT that white male troll you so desperately want to think I am. I am showing you that me, the person talking in the video, is in fact who I say I am.
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What video. I don’t have the attention span to be keeping up with every comment thread
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Lol another bitter Asian loser mad that we Asian women don’t save ourselves for him and look elsewhere. A sad, sad boy trying to reframe it when it’s really all because of your worthless personality and has nothing to do with race.
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Funny how you referred to ET, who is actually only half asian, as just asian. That’s the nuance you overlooked. It’s this subtle distinction that reaffirms what this site has been trying to say about the racial dynamic of many interracial couples and that it really has lots to do about race as opposed to your claim that it’s just “personality”.
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It’s a dude, proving once again that these hideous white guys with Asian fetishes have nothing but seering hatred for Asian males but try to play it off as something else so they can cover for their own anger and cognitive dissonance. Masquerading as Asians online is what they do in their desperation to feel powerful. So insecure, even in their fetish, that they’ll go to no ends to hurt others the way they’ve been hurt as a poor, poor white man who has turned to Asian girls as his last resort.
Hell, you’re right. Since as a half Asian male who is literally and clearly half non-Asian, most of the harassment I’ve gotten for being Asian has been from the ugly losers who relied on Asian women for their companionship.
It’s like a double whammy with these yellow fever guys: too ugly and insecure to get non-Asian girls, but also desperate to feel big and sexy and so goes after the weakest target he can: Asian and half-Asian males. Hence the literal COMMENT PROMPT.
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I’m half Asian, been with dozens of women, bud, and please post under a username that more accurately represents who you are: Physically Unattractive White Man might be more suitable, instead of role playing as the Cantonese tiger lady you fetishize as being the answer to those demanding non-Asian women who remind you constantly that you’re ugly and balding / bald. But good luck with all this; I personally guarantee that you’re unable to actually tell half Asians from full Asian males, even I can’t most of the time.
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