"I'm not racist, my wife is Asian!" What will happen when racist, anti-social, anti-diversity, conservative, anti-feminist, anti-black, anti-asian white men marry "traditional, family oriented," status-obsessed, racist asian tiger moms who hope their children look white for privilege - and produce half asian sons who look totally asian and hear "no asian guys"? what happens when half-asian sons grow up to look "too asian," and have a white dad and asian mom who are mocking asian men, while society is unapologetically racist against asian men? an honest appraisal of self-hatred, fetishization, and psycho-sexual racism by the very worried son of a racist, black-hating, holocaust denier, Nazi-sympathizer and a racist, extremely violent, self-hating chinese woman.

Why does it seem that the men that pursue Asian women as a "last resort," are generally the most racist, spiteful and hateful people – especially against Asian men, other minorities and white women? If Asian women prefer White men – why is this, and what happens to the children – especially if they look predominantly Asian? Compiled by Asian-looking Eurasians and Hapas themselves. A community effort to explore the unintended consequences of "white fever" and "yellow fever", racism, fetishes, power imbalances, stereotypes, and the effect it has on a staggeringly large, growing, and unexplored new demographic. Why does it seem the children of Asian men and White women fare better and are more successful? Why is there such a double standard against Asian men and white women, whereas Asian women essentially default to White men? What happens when Half Asian sons resemble Asian men? Why do so many White supremacists, alt-rightists, and White Nationalists have Asian partners? Why do racist white men fetishize Asian women, and why do Asian women fetishize white men – and what does that mean for the children? compiled by the son of a neo-nazi and a chinese woman.

My son / daughter hates being Asian, what do I do? Advice for Asian moms.

It’s incredibly common complaint for Asian moms to say that their half Asian sons with racist, alt-right, loser white men don’t want to be Asian.

Well, after all, you didn’t want to be Asian either.

You wanted to marry “up,” and to marry a man who would make you feel like marrying was worth it. After all, you can’t marry for love.

You’re too good for that. You’re an Asian. You are calculating. You are strong. You are cold. Your world view is so incredibly nihilistic that marriage to a racist white man was your idea of “making it.”

Your son or daughter is now subject to the same racism that was being carried out by you – yes you, years ago, and now ironically you’re worried that your half-Asian son might face racism from women like you.

And he will! You’ve probably, somewhere along the line, attacked a half-Asian man, mistaking him for a full.

You did this! I’m not here to help you, only tell you what you can expect.

So as you scramble over your broken marriage, while both you and your balding husband are in a dead bedroom and both of you take out your anger on Asian men – despite your own son being bullied for being Asian (like Celeste Ng did, refusing to stop badmouthing Asian men despite raising an Asian looking son), trying to make enough money because your husband, unfortunately, is a loser who didn’t make enough money for that hot blonde he wanted – well, deal with it!

You did this, and if it was thirty years ago, you’d do it again, and again, and again. So why ask the question? You already knew the answer.

5 thoughts on “My son / daughter hates being Asian, what do I do? Advice for Asian moms.

  1. How about telling them to teach their kids to be proud of their Asianess instead of just assuming that they dislike Asian men simply because they had kids with a white guy. Even though parents like that exist, I doubt that this is the majority. Asian kids who hate being Asian might hate it because they get bullied at school. It’s one thing if you are just stating your experiences but it’s another thing to stereotype it as all WMAF couples. You cannot speak for most Asian mums with hapa sons but rather just your own.


  2. Eh, it’s common enough. Everyone knows it happens. I’m not surprised your angry though; it’s hard being lumped in with literally every other anti-progressive WMAF couple.


  3. Also, most half Asians hate being Asian because, frankly, well, Asians hate being Asian. Why do you think the intermarriage rate is so much higher than any other ethnic group; and despite a multicultural world – it’s always only a white guy.

    Yes, Asians are bullied and mocked. Yes, nobody, not even Asians, takes Asians seriously. Except for the women… they’re nice, sexy little replacements for those pesky non-Asian women. It’s so much easier to assimilate and integrate – isn’t it?

    Only one problem though; half-Asians never look white, and nobody ever forgets that we’re half Asian. Add to the fact that it’s socially acceptable for even Asian women to badmouth Asian men – which half-Asian men are.


  4. I am a WMAF hapa but I’m proud of my Taiwanese side. I have a white dad and Asian mom and they raised me to be proud of my culture. My mother has never spoken badly of Asian men, in fact, a good friend of hers (who is also Asian) is married to an Asian man and they get along with my parents very well. So do you believe I’m supposed to suffer as a WMAF hapa? How am I supposed to feel? I can see that you are pushing your anti- WMAF propaganda too far. I don’t know how it is like for hapa boys but all I know is spreading hate towards WMAF couples only seems to encourage more internalized hatred for angry WMAF hapas. I am simply saying what normal people would say. Even if I wasn’t WMAF, I would still think you are taking this too far. So my question for you is: Do you believe I’m supposed to suffer because I am a WMAF hapa? How am I supposed to feel as a teenager with a white dad and Asian mom? Is being a “happy hapa” a crime?


  5. Gaslighting. You yourself are FULLY aware of the potential for self-hatred when it comes to looking like an Asian male in the western world, where there is routine hatred being thrown at Asian looking guys by everyone, including many self-hating women.

    Every Hapa I’ve come across has been interested in discussing self-hatred, or, on the other hand, has participated in self hatred.

    By your willful ignorance, as well as your cultish optimism and flat out denial of issues, I’ll wager a guess that you’re about 16 or 17 years old. That, or have been conditioned by your mother to deny these issues, identify as white, and seek out integration into whiteness at all costs for practical use.

    In real life, off of this site, Hapa women, increasingly WMAF couples, and even AMWF couples look at me in real life wondering about what the condition of my life is, knowing fully well the frequency and commonality of self-hating Asian women married to right-wing dads. It’s been so common for me to be subjected to the Hapa / WMAF “gaze” where they try to size me up for how I fit their “ideal” of what a biracial should look like that it’s strongly affected my mental state.


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